So I have notice that many of my feminine blog readers are not really in to the business issues that I have highlighted, but are more interested of the topics around male and female relationships and marriages and for sure I have lot to share on this topic.
I recently spent some quality time with one of my best friends talking about weddings and rezones for getting married. He mentioned that what he thinks could be the case for many girls, especially for the ones that have not been married before it’s the dress. Girls want a wedding, they don’t want a marriage. If only you could have weddings without marriages would you do it? So the question to you is if wedding is a ceremony which can be colorful, exciting and flamboyant but marriage is life time commitment would you still like to get married?
Another female friend of min told me the other day that ofcurce girls are smart. They know life is no storybook. But she admits it: Somewhere deep in girls subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella. The images may be sketchy and a little outdated, but they can still make out the silhouette of the bride and Prince Charming riding off into the sunset. In real life, sometimes girls Disney fairy tale ends up feeling more like Quinn Tarantino dusk to dawn movie. Lets face it, marriage is not for the faint of heart. You want to believe your pure love for each other will pull you through. And it does. But it ain't always pretty.
But here's a secret: Sometimes it's the least romantic parts of marriage that have the most to teach you about yourself, your partner, and the nature of love. So let me know if you agree or disagree with my friends?
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